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| Eugene Phillips and Anita Ward-Richardson stop to take a look at one of several photos of her hanging in a hallway in Phillips' home that he named in her honor. (Photos by Wiley Henry) |
Home
is where Eugene Phillips’ heart is and where he feels most comfortable. His
heart is also with the children at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital who grapple
with catastrophic diseases.
On
Sunday evening (Feb. 10), Phillips opened the door of his lavishly decorated
home in Germantown to a cadre of special friends who celebrated his birthday
over dinner and made a donation to St. Jude.
Phillips,
whose birthday was Feb. 12, has raised more than $100,000 for St. Jude over the
course of 35 years – thanks to an eclectic mix of friends: doctors, CEOs,
entertainers, entrepreneurs, ministers, business owners, social justice
advocates, and others.
“It’s
a blessing to have friends to donate money to St. Jude in honor of my
birthday,” Phillips said.
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| Willie Bland, wife of the late bluesman Bobby Blue Bland, relaxes in the room that Eugene Phillips named in honor of his friend. |
Raising funds for St. Jude sparked Phillips’ interest decades ago after
longtime community activist Sandy Vogel Lewis escorted him on a tour of the
campus. She had served more than 20 years on St. Jude’s board before she died
in 2010.
“I was so impressed,” he said. “They [St. Jude] do so much for children
and their families.”
Phillips embraced Lewis as a dear friend. She was credited with
helping St. Jude’s founder Danny Thomas grow the hospital into a worldwide pediatric treatment and research facility.
“I told Sandy that my birthday would always be celebrated
for St. Jude,” he said.
A photo of Lewis hangs in Phillips’ home. In
fact, just about every wall in his two-story home is adorned with photos of his
friends and St. Jude contributors. The photos are keepsakes, irreplaceable
memories, he said.
Some rooms are named in honor of his friends –
for example, the late rhythm and blues entertainer Rufus Thomas. His memories
are framed in each photo and embody the man that Phillips had happily regarded
as his good friend.
“Rufus was so happy. It [a room in his honor]
meant so much to him,” said Phillips, recalling those special moments when the
entertainer would come over and drift off to sleep on a soft, cushioned recliner.
Another friend and entertainer, the late Bobby
Blue Bland, is featured prominently in another room. His eyes seem to glare at
the onlooker. His wife, Willie Bland, said her husband appreciated the honor.
“He liked it,” she said. A private duty licensed
practical nurse, Bland didn’t hesitate to lavish praise on Phillips. She
appreciates their friendship. “Eugene has been a friend of ours for so many
years.”
Bobby Blue Bland died in 2013. His voice wails
from a recording that Phillips plays whenever he feels a need to relax in the
room that he named in honor of his friend. Sitting quietly, he reflects on the
good times.
“When I’m
here at home and all over the place, it’s good to have the memories,” said
Phillips, noting that the memories will occupy his mind for the rest of his
life.
Anita Ward-Richardson and Phillips were neighbors
once. She remembers when Phillips first talked about supporting St. Jude. It
was around the time when her million dollar selling, chart-topping single,
“Ring My Bell,” caught fire in 1979.
She and her husband, Stephen R. Richardson, are
frequent guests at Phillips’ birthday celebration each year. Her appreciation
for Phillips is evident: “Eugene is such a wonderful person. He’s so kind.”
They came – couples and singles, near and far –
to celebrate with Phillips, to fellowship with one another, to support a worthy
cause: St. Jude’s children.
Several guests conversed with one another and
shared stories. Phillips made them all feel at home. They made him feel
special. He was a jovial host.
Zeina Alwfeu and Michael Fahr were present. So
were Louisette and Dino Palazzola, Mimi Bell and Sonny McQueen, Doris and Bubba
Bridges (comedian Steve Harvey’s mother-and father-in-law).
Other guests included Anita and James Bridges,
Janelle and Reginald Eskridge, Gwen Nelson and Roosevelt Boyd, Sarah Schwab,
Rick Abraham, Michael Donahue, Gina Roberts, and Dr. Gregory Hanissian.
Rahechelia and Elder Aaron L. Patterson made the
trip all the way from Munford, Tenn., about 30 miles outside of Memphis. They
have celebrated with Phillips for about four years now.
Giving the host his props, Patterson – who serves as minister of worship at Pentecostal Temple Church of
God in Christ and president of the missions department – said, “His dedication is unparalleled.”
He said the reason for the birthday celebration is to support St.
Jude. “And we look forward to it each year.”
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