Tuesday, January 7, 2020

Emogene Watkins-Wilson was a trailblazing journalist who taught life-lessons

One of the last writing projects that Emogene Watkins-Wilson was working on was a biography of her late husband, L. Alex Wilson, the venerable editor and general manager of the Tri-State Defender during the 1950s.
L. Alex Wilson rose to national prominence after cameras caught a white mob savagely beating him while he was reporting on the Little Rock Nine’s integration of Little Rock Central High School on Sept. 23, 1957.
Emogene Watkins-Wilson
Mrs. Wilson herself was a trailblazing journalist working on a career of her own during that turbulent period in the nation’s history and devoted much of her life to writing and teaching school before retiring after 35 years. 
On Dec. 25, after struggling with a recent illness, Mrs. Wilson died at St. Luke’s Episcopal Hospital in Woodlands, Texas, where she was living with her daughter and son-in-law, Karen Rose Wilson-Sadberry and Alonzo J. Sadberry. She was 95.
Wilson-Sadberry remembers the life that her mother lived and the life-lessons she taught. She was her parents’ only child and called her mother a good friend. She also was inspired and enamored with her gift of writing and overall humanity. 
Considering the era in which Mrs. Wilson launched her career in journalism apparently did not hamper the strides she’d made going forward. 
She worked briefly for the Afro American newspaper in Washington, D.C., and for Life Magazine between 1952 and 1954 while teaching school. She also served as the women’s editor and society columnist for the Tri-State Defender between 1952 and 1956.
During this time, when the civil rights movement was rising to a crescendo, Mrs. Wilson met and married the Defender’s new editor, L. Alex Wilson, who died four years later. The severe head trauma that he’d sustained in Little Rock was suspected to be the cause of death.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Wilson tarried on. She continued to teach and write. Her articles appeared in other publications as well, such as The Memphis Press-Scimitar and The Commercial Appeal.
Emogene Watkins-Wilson (seated left)
spends time with her daughter and son-
in-law, Karen Rose Wilson-Sadberry and
Alonzo J. Sadberry. (Courtesy photos)
“She was a very committed person,” Wilson-Sadberry said. “She worked really hard, studied, made preparation, and was committed to excellence.”
Excellence was deeply rooted in Mrs. Wilson’s DNA. She grew up in North Memphis. Her father, Dr. Thomas H. Watkins Sr., was a physician who located his office at Bellevue and Jackson. 
Mrs. Wilson’s father graduated from Meharry Medical College in 1911. He was originally from Baltimore, Md. Her mother, Johnnie R. Watkins, was an educator and hailed from Tuskegee, Ala. 
Like her mother and father, Mrs. Wilson followed the path to higher education. She graduated from Howard University with Bachelor of Arts degrees in English and Journalism. 
She also completed coursework in Spanish at Howard and later studied Spanish in Mexico. This skills-set enabled her to teach all levels of Spanish to her students in high school. 
Mrs. Wilson’s penchant for writing, her pursuit of higher education, and her commitment to the community were impetuses that led Wilson-Sadberry to sharpen her own skills.
Rodney Van Miller, Wilson-Sadberry’s cousin, said Mrs. Wilson was “not just an aunt but a mother. She became the mother that I needed to pull me through.”
His own mother, Marilyn Miller, his aunt’s youngest sister, died when he was 13. He said his aunt stepped in as a surrogate and nurtured him as her own. “She promised my mother that she would look out for me,” he said.
The maternal benefits that Wilson-Sadberry enjoyed was likewise afforded to Miller, who lived with his father, Albert Miller, two streets over from his aunt in the Glenview community. 
“Her death is a chapter-changing moment in my life,” he said.
Like Wilson-Sadberry, Miller recalls his aunt’s particular skills in writing and the impact that she made in the community and in the classroom – and particularly on him when she was teaching at Hamilton High School.
“She would help me with my papers and made sure that I was on point,” said Miller, a graduate of Wooddale High School. “She taught me different life-skills that I use today. She was sweet and firm…and gave me the structure that I needed.” 
Mrs. Wilson was very influential in the classroom and the community, her daughter added. She touched the lives of many people, whom she either taught or wrote about on the pages of various publications. 
“She opened the window of opportunities for others, particularly her students,” said Wilson-Sadberry, who graduated in 1975 from Hamilton High School, where her mother was teaching English, Journalism, and Spanish.
Some students may feel uncomfortable attending the same school where a parent is teaching. Wilson-Sadberry wasn’t fazed by the arrangement. “It worked out,” she said. “We supported each other.”
Based on her family’s pedigree, education was the key to upward mobility, which Wilson-Sadberry understood. She pursued a Ph.D. like her grandfather, who inspired her just as much as her mother had and retired from Texas A&M University in 2013 as a sociology professor.
Wilson-Sadberry and her husband have a 23-year-old son, Adam Wilson Sadberry. She wants him to understand his grandmother’s legacy and what she meant to a lot of people. 
“It’s been good to talk to him about mother and what she was all about,” she said.
A visitation for Mrs. Emogene Watkins-Wilson is Thursday, Jan. 9, from 6 p.m.-8 p.m., and on Friday, Jan. 10, from 11 a.m. to noon at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, 4160 Boeingshire Dr., in Memphis. 
She will be eulogized at the church at noon on Friday, Jan. 10, and interred in Historic Elmwood Cemetery with her husband, L. Alex Wilson. M.J. Edwards Funeral Home has charge.

Mariah Michelle: ‘Music is My Testimony’

"Black Diamond," the EP. (Photo by Doug Bedford)
If you listen to “Free From Me” on the EP “Black Diamond,” you’ll learn a lot about Mariah Michelle Stokes. She is a young, rising soloist striking a familiar chord that young women like her would understand. 
“I’m very emotional and vulnerable,” said Stokes, 22, who uses “Mariah Michelle” as her stage name. “I wrote that song when I was depressed during a very dark time in my life.”  
What resulted from that somber experience was Mariah Michelle’s heartfelt testimony that she set to music. “I went through some things in life and I felt like music is my testimony,” she said. 
With rock-solid confidence now, Mariah Michelle hopes to inspire people, young or otherwise, via “Black Diamond,” a compilation of five R&B/soul selections with message-laden lyrics that inspire and motivate.
Mariah Michelle was front and center
at the Juneteenth Urban Music Festival
last year at the historic Robert R. Church
Park in downtown Memphis. (Photo
by Wiley Henry)
“Black Diamond” is the title track. The others are “Go Get It,” “Be Loved,” “Break,” and, of course, “Free From Me.” The songs are produced by Ja’Mar Productions.  
“All the songs have a message,” she said. “Black Diamond celebrates us. It’s a celebratory song about black people, about tearing down all stereotypes.” The remaining songs on the EP are just as compelling, she added.
Consider the chorus in “Black Diamond:” “You’re a black diamond, you gon shine forever/ They try to tie us down, but we gon reign forever/ When you black and you proud, it just don’t get no better/ All the mess we overcame, we on another level.”
While Mariah Michelle radiates confidence and touts the finished product as good – which took over a year to complete – her journey to creative expression could have ended before it began.
At the onset of her life, not long after awakening into the world, Mariah Michelle was diagnosed with an auto-immune disease called alopecia areata, which attacks hair follicles.
Completely bald now, the image that she showcases on stage and in her daily life is bold, alluring, and self-assuring. People gaze upon her baldness in admiration and surmise that it is fate that God has ordered.
 “Black Diamond” is Mariah Michelle’s foray into the music industry. But like many black singers, whatever the genre they inevitably end up singing, the church was their springboard. It’s no different for Mariah Michelle.
“We still got to walk by faith. Sometimes in the music industry it takes a while [to get noticed],” Mitchell Stokes, her father and manager, said. He plays lead guitar for his home church, Golden Gate Cathedral, and for The Soul Shockers, an R&B group.
Mariah Michelle is a praise dancer and sings in the church choir. The message that she conveys in her music is tantamount to the message that comes forth when she sings God’s praises.
“My music is clear and inspirational,” she said, denouncing music about money, sex and drugs for music that uplifts and makes a positive statement.
“She has a gift and she’s anointed to do what she’s doing,” Mitchell Stokes said. “We want her to continue to grow in Christ, continue to love herself, and continue go after her dreams.”
Her mother, Sandra Stokes, embraces the objective of ensuring that Mariah Michelle is grounded and rooted in faith. She and her husband believe that all things are possible, considering the unpredictability of the music industry. 
“I’m just the prayer warrior,” Sandra Stokes said. “I don’t know about music. I just try to keep her committed and connected to Christ.” 
Mariah Michelle initially didn’t want to sing professionally, her father said. But then something happened. Someone had seen a video on social media of Mitchell Stokes’ little girl singing and contacted him.
“She has always sung,” he said. “Our family is musically-inclined. It’s inside of her.”
Mariah Michelle added her spin: “Music is in my genes. It’s a natural gift.”
Although music is her passion, “in my genes,” education is underscored. This year, Mariah Michelle will graduate from the University of Memphis with a bachelor’s degree in psychology. Why psychology?
“I’ve always been interested in the way people think, the way the brain works, and how people behave,” she explained.
Until she walks across the stage with her degree in hand, she’ll continue to sashay across the stage at other venues, where she’ll sing songs that accentuate the positive and evoke thought. 
A song on the EP, “Go Get It,” released on Nov. 29, is reflective of Mariah Michelle’s endeavor to go after what she wants in life with a clean-cut message that sets her apart from her contemporaries.
“…I’m gon do my own thing and go get it/ Go get it and unleash the champion/ Go get it…” she sings. “Whatever you want, go get it/ What you been hoping for, go get it.”
“Go Get It” is streaming on all major platforms, such as Spotify, Amazon, YouTube, Apple Music, and Google Play. “Black Diamond,” the EP, is $5. For more information, email info@moriahmichelle.com, or call 901-338-7028.