If
it had not been for sheer will power and the determination to finish what she
had started 30 years ago, Shalonda Patryce Jackson wouldn’t have been ready to
walk across the commencement stage to receive the Bachelor of Science in
Education.
But
she was more than ready for that crowning achievement on the morning of May 13,
when The LeMoyne-Owen College kicked off its 147th Commencement
ceremony at Mt. Vernon Baptist Church-Westwood in Memphis.
Donning
cap, gown,
tassel and the purple and gold stole, Jackson remembered how far she’d come to
this point in her life and made her way to the stage to complete her final journey
to academic achievement.
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That
sterling moment almost didn’t happen, though. On May 28, 1990 – Memorial Day
weekend – Jackson and Sherian Boyd, her roommate and best friend, were en route
to Memphis from Washington D.C. and careened the rented car Boyd was driving
into a grove of trees in Greenville, Tenn., about 56 miles from Knoxville.
Boyd
had fallen asleep at the wheel, but managed to crawl from the back seat of the twisted
Lumina with a broken leg and fractured ribs just in time to beckon a trucker to
stop. Like the Good Samarian, the trucker stopped to help.
Jackson,
whom Boyd thought was dead, had to be airlifted to Holston Valley Medical
Center in Kingsport, Tenn. Her prognosis? Not good. She’d suffered brain trauma,
a right broken leg, and lapsed into a coma.
Beverly
Wade said she’d forbidden Jackson to come home because she’d hosted a party at
Sherrods to celebrate her daughter’s 21st birthday on May 14, 14
days before the accident.
Wade’s admonishment was no
doubt a second thought after receiving an alarming phone call from Boyd’s
mother, who broke the news that the two
Howard University students had wrecked the car on the way to Boyd’s brother’s
graduation in Memphis.
“Shalonda
was in Kingsport in a coma for two months,” said Wade, who dropped everything
and rushed to Kingsport to be with her daughter. She was there for the duration
while her husband, Bill Wade, other family members and clergy, made the trek as
much as possible.
The doctors didn’t think Jackson
was going to pull through, Wade said. They were giving up hope that their
life-saving equipment wouldn’t be enough to save Jackson. Wade, on the other
hand, was praying for a miracle.
“When we arrived at the hospital, she didn’t even know
she was in the world,” said Wade, refusing to give credence to the doctors’
grim report. For assurance, she turned to God – and some tranquilizers and
valiums to calm down.
“When
we walked into the ICU, she had a trachea in her throat,” Wade observed. “She
had a cast covering her entire face.”
When
the coma finally released Jackson from a state of deep unconsciousness, she
opened her eyes to a world that was remotely familiar. But she couldn’t
remember the serious accident that had mangled her body and nearly took her life.
The
accident only delayed Jackson’s quest to finish her education. “It was a
setback,” she said. “I knew what kind of student I was and I knew things
weren’t the same.”
Jackson
graduated from Whitehaven High School in 1987 and was studying for a career in
pharmacy. “It was hard then,” she said. “But having a head injury and losing a
little of my thinking…I just couldn’t remember all of that stuff.”
Five years after the accident, Markhum “Mark”
L. Stansbury Sr., a family friend and then interim president of the former
Shelby State Community College (now Southwest Tennessee Community College),
mentored Jackson and encouraged her to enroll.
Dr.
Gina M. Stewart, who served as Dean of Admissions at the college, also mentored
Jackson and supported her efforts to finish the course. Stewart, the senior
pastor of Christ Missionary Baptist Church, stuck by Jackson’s side since the
accident and subsequent rehabilitation.
“I
was able to drive down to Shelby State and talk to her. She (Stewart) told me
that enrolling in Shelby State would be a start,” said Jackson, who went on to
earn an Associates Degree.
She
discovered thereafter that the two-year degree wouldn’t cut the muster in the
job market.
“Everybody
was looking for experience,” she said. “How can I have experience when I’m
fresh out of college? So I kept working and decided to go to a four-year
institution.”
Jackson
was working at Kroger’s – where she is employed part time today – but pursuing
a four-year degree superseded everything else.
She
first enrolled at the University of Memphis before matriculating at Howard.
After the accident, she went back to the U of M, then Shelby State, and
transferred from there to LeMoyne in 2013.
It
was difficult physically and mentally to pull it all back together, said
Jackson, now 48. “I don’t walk the same. But I pretty much do the same things
that everybody else does.”
She
is not like everybody else, though. The accident couldn’t stop her from
pursuing an education. Her resolve wouldn’t falter.
“I’ve
taken the Praxis 1 exam and now I’m working on completing my certification. I
didn’t pass the first time,” said Jackson, a teacher’s assistant at Melrose
High School.
If
Jackson had given up after the accident, she wouldn’t be where she is today. So
she’s determined to pass the Praxis to make her life just a litter better.
“It’s
something that’s been in me all my life,” she said.
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